How to Deal With Difficult Patients as a Nurse

Dealing With Difficult Patients as a Nurse

Nurses enter the profession understanding that the nature of their work calls for random interactions with persons who may be anxious, vulnerable, frightened, overwhelmed and certainly not at their best. Even the happiest of occasions in healthcare, the birth of a healthy newborn, brings with it stressors, and feelings of uncertainty.

In addition to the stress associated with seeking and receiving healthcare services, patients bring with them all of the struggles of human existence including economic challenges, social and political pressures, emotional illness and chemical dependency just to name a few.

Layered on top of these are factors related to navigating the complex healthcare payment system, causing further anxiety related to how the cost of services will be paid for. Finally, many patients find themselves in unfamiliar settings when seeking healthcare where being on time for appointments and finding a place to park can be a “tipping point”.

Persons under stress commonly demonstrate one or a combination of the following behaviors:

Defensiveness

Rudeness

Aggression

Cursing

Confusion

Anger

Short attention span

Lack of decorum

Any one of these behaviors can lead to a “difficult” nurse-patient interaction.

Definition

“Difficult”(adj):

Needing much EFFORT or SKILL to ACCOMPLISH, DEAL WITH or UNDERSTAND”

Success in dealing with difficult patients stems from all the elements of this definition. Let’s break it down:

Understanding

1. Listen up!

Gain insight as to what may be contributing to a difficult patient’s behavior. Skillful listening, coupled with communication skills, will open the door to the discovery of the factors contributing to behaviors. Gather as much information as you can from the patient, family, the medical record and colleagues who may have had previous encounters.

2. Be present!

Minimize the “noise” in the environment by turning the volume of TV and music down or off and silencing cell phones. Make and hold eye contact. Make every effort to communicate directly to the patient that your primary goal is to understand the issue at hand and to work toward resolution. Phrases such as “I want to understand.” are very helpful in gaining the patient’s confidence and attention.

Dealing With the Issue

1. What is important

Gain insight into the patient’s priorities and source of anxiety. This sets the stage for the resolution and creation of a therapeutic relationship. Typically, a cascade of issues contributes to a difficult patient’s behavior.  Hence, leading questions that help identify the most important issue puts the interaction on a path of constructive resolution. Though the identified priority may be as simple as a glass of water or as complex as the resolution of a billing dispute, bringing it to the surface provides the nurse with the ability to begin resolution.

2. Commitment

Identify what you can do to resolve the issue. Commit to doing what you can to meet the patient’s needs. Though getting the patient a glass of water is easy, resolving a billing dispute is not.  However, a commitment to setting up a meeting with someone who can resolve the billing issue can be equally effective.

3. Follow-through!

Be sure that what you committed to happens. This builds and sustains trust in the nurse and the organization.

Effort and Skill

1. Back to basics

Introductory nursing education focuses on therapeutic communication skills to facilitate building professional relationships with patients and families. Listening, reflecting, clarifying, acknowledging, and accepting are useful tools that nurses exercise daily throughout their careers.

2. It’s not personal

It is sometimes difficult not to take insults or demeaning language personally. However, personalizing the patient’s behavior often sets up a cycle of anger that is not constructive.

3. Be safe!

Always be prepared for the interaction to deteriorate. Engaging a difficult patient in an isolated area is never advisable. Ensure that colleagues understand what you are trying to accomplish and that they remain vigilant and able to assist should the interaction turn hostile. Be aware of organizational policies and emergency preparedness codes for securing assistance and de-escalation of aggression.

Conclusions

One of the challenges of the nursing profession is that the job entails random interactions with persons experiencing a wide array of emotional and physical stress.  Not all interactions are easy.  Many are difficult.

Dealing with difficult patients requires effort and skill on the part of the nurse. The nurse’s focus in these interactions is to gain an understanding of the patient and the underlying factors contributing to the behavior.  Once gained, this understanding will provide the nurse with the ability to help move the patient toward their healthcare goals.

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See Also

How to Deal With Needle Phobic Patients

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Nursing Malpractice Insurance

Medical Billing and Coding Salary

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Nursing Schools in Texas

Nursing Schools in California

Side Hustles for Nurses

Grants for Nursing School

DHHS Grant Program

Nurse Practitioner Salary in the US

Current Version
October 4, 2023
Edited By
Andrea Morales G.
October 3, 2023
Written By
Tim Bevelacqua, MN, RN

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